A number can't be reliably given because it varies considerably across clients. One session may be sufficient for a particular client, yet another client may benefit from several sessions. Help is neither rushed or drawn out; Erection Minded doesn't subscribe to some snap of the fingers cure or to indefinite personal analysis. Necessity governs the help span. Equally, the sooner a client no longer needs Erection Minded the better.
Do I have to commit to multiple bookings?
No. Usually we'll only arrange the next one appointment. The alternative, making commitment to multiple further appointments, can be therapeutically helpful. However, practicalities are often problematic. And I want clients and potential clients to know they'll always retain an 'easy-out'. Plus, because clients get to choose again whether to have a further session they have a useful reflection point that may otherwise be missed.
Do you take on as clients all who contact you and want your help?
No. Their mental health issues could be too severe to be helped by this mode of assitance. Or the rapport betweeen us may not be conducive to our continuation. The non-conducive rapport may be nobody's fault; just a 'bad chemistry' matter.
What if I feel that what I wish to disclose is 'too much'.
Erection Minded will unconditionally give you dignity and respect at all times. There is nothing you can disclose that will prevent this.
Can I use a mobile phone for the video sessions?
Certainly. This is a great way to have a session somewhere that best suits. The bigger the screen the more immersive, though. At the outset of us proceeding to work together we'll agree a therapy contract (as is standard practice) concerning the essential rights, conditions and responsibiliies of us both; this will include policy details over the procedural/practical aspects of us having our sessions online (e.g. specification of what one or other of us will do in the event of internet failure during a session).
Why don't you provide further contact details on this website?
Because of the large amount of spam and bogus communications received. This area of work particularly attracts it.
Are you selling any physical goods, or forwarding clients' names to other businesses?
No and no. You'll solely get psychological services from Erection Minded, as described here. And no parties receive any of your details.
Can you treat medical matters?
No. The psychological is the expertise. However, we may have discussions about seeing medical doctors and the physiology of the sexual issue(s). *
Sex is not (just) what you have between your legs but (also) what you have between your ears
I know a lot about my condition; can you still help me?
Born of their suffering, some clients are already experts on the physical/medical, and/or have accurate insights into their psychology. Their understandings don't eliminate gains available from therapeutic encounters. The essential dynamics, and potential for help thereof, of therapy sessions remain.
Will you help me with sexual issues in any area?
Yes; any area, where to do so is moral and ethical, and where I'm helping with the psychological/behavioural, and when your sexual activites involving other people are consensual. And where I believe I possess the ability to help.
I'm not into typical things; is this OK?
Absolutely. Note, many people privately believe or suspect they aren't into typical things sexually. Thus what one considers 'untypical' may be not so untypical after all. So please don't be deterred from seeking help because of how you think your interests could be regarded.
Nothing has helped me yet. Why should it be any different with you?
It needn't be different. But it could be. Imagine if it is.
Is there any follow-up?
I like to have a follow-up session 3 months after the main help period. This is free. I care about each and every client.
Prices
How much will it cost?
The Initial Consultation of up to 15 minutes is £10.
Normal sessions of about 45 minutes are £45 each.
The Initial Consultation. Regretable is that a free Initial Consultation isn't offered; but I get too many non-genuine callers. If we don't proceed after it, you don't loose much money (and anyway will have gained some knowledge, maybe a little confidence boost, and will be all the readier to seek help from elsewhere). If we do proceed, the £10 is effectively refunded, via you only paying £35 for the first sesson. If you're a non-genuine caller, I'll have got something for entertaining you.
Value. These prices are good. I wish to include people who otherwise wouldn't have help in this realm; cost is one prohibiting factor. You can, of course, pay me more if you want to!
Pricing policy. Erection Minded's pricing policy has clients at its heart. I believe we're worth the same. I would pay you £45, whatever you do, for 45 minutes.
Make no mistake, for these prices you'll be getting ultra topnotch help.
What wouldn't you give for good erections?
How and when do I pay?
Payment for a session is made before each one and through a secure payment form on the booking page - where more details are given. The form works through the Paypal company. Payments can be from a Paypal account, or from Debit/Credit cards. Though Paypal handles the money transfer, a Paypal account isn't needed to pay with a Debit/Credit card.